Archive for January, 2010

Child Abuse Effects

Based on statistics, most of the abused victims are children below five years of age. Most of them were abused by parents on the spur of the moment when they angry. In fact many of the parents involved in the abuse confessed that they had no intention of beating or harming their loved ones but they could not help it because of stress. Most of them said that they really regretted their action when they came to their senses. Some of the parents cried uncontrollably when they realized the damage they had done.

What are the psychological effects on the abused child? Severe beating may harm the child physically and mentally. What is more serious is the mental aspect. The punishment may leave a deep scar on the mind of the abused for a long time. He will not be able to forget the incident and sometimes feels frightened when he sees someone that looks like his abuser himself. However this depends very much on the frequency of abuse, type of abuse, the environment he is brought up in and his ability to withstand stress.

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Child Abuse

It is reported in a local newspaper that child abuse continuous to be a social problem despite efforts by various authorities to create a caring society. It claims that in most cases, the natural parents are the main culprits. Statistics from the Social Welfare Department in my country, Malaysia indicate that cases involving the natural mother totaled 224 and natural father 215. There were only 45 cases involving stepmothers and 38 involving stepfathers. There were also cases involving relatives, servants, neighbors and teachers.

What is more distressing is that cases involving the victim’s natural parents are on the increase. Quarrels between parents may cause one or both of them to vent their anger or tension on their helpless children. A spokesman from the Social Welfare Department revealed that in 2008, there were 297 cases stemming from family quarrels and 120 from stress faced by the parents.

As local consultant psychiatrist agreed that quarrels between parents could cause tension and depression. He said that when parents could not withstand the stress, they invariably reacted in various ways without any rationale. One example was beating their children or torturing them by not allowing them to take their meals. The spokesman added that the situation could be worse if the abusers themselves had been subjected to various forms of punishment when they were young.

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